Adam Grant brings friendship homework to Rich Roll
Four uploads pair a conversation about connection with a personal question about Rich's future in running.
Why this story? The channel's weekly summary: what went up this week, what is drawing views now, and where the channel stands among similar channels.
Adam Grant Knows Why You Don't Vibe With Everyone (& How To Fix It)
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- 7:18Admitting nervousness can show vulnerability and help people connect, Grant tells Rich.
- 17:21Grant separates relationships into associates, allies, pals and companions, each offering a different kind of connection.
- 20:06Grant started a weekly padel group to build friendships centered on shared fun rather than goals.
- 29:28A first impression in one setting needn't reveal someone's whole character.
- 47:14Constructive disagreement focuses on the issue rather than attacking the person.
- 52:26Grant recounts how he and Brené Brown reconciled after a public disagreement about authenticity.
Rich Roll admits he's nervous, even after years of interviewing people. Adam Grant finds something useful in that admission: showing a little vulnerability can help a conversation connect. Their previous interview happened over Zoom; this time, they're together in Los Angeles, discussing why getting along isn't simply a matter of finding your kind of person.
"Adam Grant Knows Why You Don't Vibe With Everyone (& How To Fix It)" was the most watched of Rich's four new uploads, reaching about 35,000 views. The Wharton organizational psychologist argues that compatibility can be built, and gives friendship a more precise vocabulary: associates, allies, pals and companions. His own attempt to make more just-for-fun friendships involved starting a weekly padel group in Philadelphia.
That distinction caught readers' attention in the comments, alongside Grant's account of repairing his friendship with Brené Brown. Two shorter uploads pulled out related questions: whether friendship is mutual, and when telling a friend a hard truth is an act of care.
The week's other full episode turns inward. In "Is It Time for Me to Retire From Running? | Open Container E2," Rich invites Dr. Kelly Starrett into his home gym to explore running after spinal fusion surgery and whether he can safely attempt the New York City Marathon. It has the strongest daily viewing momentum of his videos, already approaching the Grant interview's total.
Channel-wide daily views are well above their usual level, though subscribers were unchanged across the week. Beyond the new episodes, Rich's conversation with performance chef and endurance athlete Dan Churchill continues drawing viewers, with turning 60 prompting a reflection on what he'd do differently at 40.
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What viewers say
The associates, allies, pals, and companions breakdown stopped me in my tracks. I've called everybody a friend and then wondered why some of those connections felt thin. Compatibility being built instead of found reframes a few relationships I gave up on too early — and hearing how he and Brené Brown actually repaired theirs made it land even harder.
@UnuzualHourSee it on YouTubeI only vibe with Claude.
@kayericwinklerSee it on YouTubeI love Adam. Met him through my love of brene ❣️
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Very cool, thank you Rich 😎
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The videos drawing views on Rich Roll right now
Is It Time for Me to Retire From Running? | Open Container E232,225 views · 2026-11-13
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- Channel
- Rich Roll
- Subscribers
- 1,610,000
- Channel views, last 7 days
- 540,156
- Videos published this week
- 4
- Video published
- November 9, 2026
- Video views so far
- 35,024
- Views on its first day
- 14,505
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